33 Joys

I’ve discovered in my time living

Hello!

In September 2024, I finished 33 years of living. The white in my beard stretches further, covering a surface area far more than I remember. But I don’t trust my memory, it has a way of phantomizing much of the time I’ve travelled around the sun on this wonderful space rock. Who knows how much white my beard displayed yesterday or last year or in the days before then?

When my wife took me to the Poetry Pharmacy cafe, these words came alongside the coffee.

While drafting this missive, I considered sharing 33 lessons I’ve learnt — like many often do on the interwebs. But I don’t have any. The only one I’ve learnt well enough to repeat is to seek your own joys. Let it pull you like a magnet, a leyline on the earth’s crust, an inexplicable tug in its direction. Trust it. Follow it. I don’t know where it will take you but that’s half the joy. The other half is in the thing itself. I don’t have any lessons to share but I’d like to share some of my joys.

Here are 33 bits of joy I’ve found in my time breathing:

1. The word Apricity which means the warmth of the sun in winter

2. Smooth transitions (in life and in stories)

3. Standing barefoot in freshly mowed grass

4. A book (or story) that keeps you up at night

5. My wife’s patience

6. My iPad Pro — no device has ever felt like an extension to my being as this

7. Waking up well rested

8. Breakfast

9. A sky full of stars

10. The release of endorphins after a solid workout

11. Focused time

12. Bewildering, delightful confluence

13. Poha

14. The song Tum by Arpit Agnihotri

15. Silent nods between drivers and pedestrians

16. Discovering a new book by an old favourite author in a book store

17. Blue skies with lazy clouds

18. A long bus ride with an empty seat on the top deck, the one directly above the driver

19. Writing days and writing nights (and writing moments)

20. A smiling stranger

21. Learning to name something you couldn’t before (this month I learnt how to recognise Hawthorn Trees)

22. Artists

23. Autumn

24. The smooth stroke of a pen that knows you

25. The all encompassing click/clack of a keyboard

26. The complete audio-visual experience of using iPhones without silent mode

27. Earl Grey tea brewed at just the right temperature

28. Underlined sentences in a second hand book

29. Watching my wife watch TV

30. A well-composed photograph

31. A freshly inked pen

32. The right song at the right moment

33. Potential, fulfilled

34. Giving, just a bit more.

I hope you discover the things that bring you joy. And I hope you have the courage to follow them all the way.

Here is a picture I took this month I really like:

If you’re following me on Instagram, you’ve probably seen this picture. I made much of the above list, sitting in my favourite seat on the top deck of a bus I took from this very bus stop. My brain may or may not have been gently altered.

Until next month,

Seek joy,

Akshay

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